What to choose?

I know that I am just a check to most, but that will change soon maybe. So now the only thing is to decide where I make my next move, with one I might be safe but totally unhappy and with the other.... I would be ecstatic but not exactly in the best hands, what do I choose??

so now......

Basically, I have made my decision. The time has come for me to move on. It's absolutely for the better, I just wish others could see this. It's not fair that every time I make a decision, some one has to act on it immediately, that really has nothing to do with the situation at hand. I don't want my father to leave, no one would... unless it's an entirely different circumstance, then that's fine. But my father needs to stay, just because I leave doesn't mean that he has to too. Maybe I am being selfish, and need to stay so that everyone can somewhat peacefully co-exist but am I really helping that much, or am I just delusional?